future past.

when you’re in a relationship just because they would do it- so would you, supposedly. even more annoying- just because an ex did it then all following relationships afterwards will do the same. there is no future. only the past and past mistakes. in gay relationships everything is drama. drama, drama, drama. is it because we’re gay we’re supposed to be so exotic and exciting? that because we’re not straight then everything is crooked? but you know, I’m wrong for saying all because there are mature gay relationships out there and mature gay individuals.
relationships are supposed to be about the individual not the stereotype. that’s supposed to be the whole point of a relationship- is that you like that person, not that they’re gay or straight or that they’re hot or that you like the same music and movies… they’re not about their fashion or how much money they have in the bank. it doesn’t matter who their friends are. it doesn’t matter if their family is completely insane. it doesn’t matter if you have sex every night or not. and if these things do matter then you’re in a relationship for the wrong reasons.
and you’re never going to like everything single thing about anyone. so quit looking for perfection. love isn’t perfect anyways.
I’m just saying that it’s always a good reminder to remember that you’re in a relationship with the person, an individual that isn’t, or ever is, going to be the same as anyone else. you can’t tell the future and can’t move forward in the past.